Okay, you maintained your cool, and built up an exciting rapport about all the exciting things in your life.

But what do you do if she starts pressing you with questions like “Yeah, but how do you make MONEY?” ,

That’s when you can respond with a little sarcasm like “OH ! is that what interests you ..MONEY?, okay, now I know what kind of girl you are” . Be exaggerated with your voice and facial expression.

By turning the game around and pidgeon-holing her in a playful manner, you will get a laugh, loosen up the air, and create an immediate intimacy. At this point, she will do anything she can to prove that she’s not a shallow and petty “gold-digger” (even though she might be). Now, she’s trying to win YOU over.

Afterward, you can go on to DESCRIBE your “job” to her, but DO NOT give it a title. Use the highlights of your day to paint a beautiful picture of your job. Don’t say, “I sit in a cubicle all day bored outta my mind drinking coffee and surfing the net”.

Instead, make it an inspiring story for her to listen to. “I help people realize their potential”. Let her know the all the positive things and how they make you feel good. Make your job sound like an adventure. (by the way, if you don’t like your job, this exercise might help you feel better about it and increase your overall attractiveness).

NEVER tell a woman that you hate your job or that you feel trapped. That your only there to make money. This will IMMEDIATELY turn a woman off and she will either lose ALL interest or at best throw you into the “Friend Zone”.

This comes across as EXTREMELY weak, and is NOT the talk of an attractive alpha man with integrtiy and vision.

We will discuss this in more detail later on, but for now, just remember…

Avoid job titles and use emotional description to make your job sound like an exciting adventure.

Until next time, chew it down

Jake Patch